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How To: Go to Work With A Hangover
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If there’s a boy in the bed, kick him out. Tell Tim he better find his boxers and then find the door because you’ve got a day to conquer. If there’s some leftover nachos by your bedside, sniff first, and then maybe snack on them as you have that awful realisation: you have to go to work with a hangover. You’re wearing the same crop top with one boob popped out, your jeans are unzipped because of said nachos, and your Netflix cue is playing another rerun episode of Queer Eye. That explains the mascara-stained tissues by your bed too. Before you panic and feel like you have to call out sick, take some time to toughen up bitch. You need to make that cash money, so get out of bed (slowly) and let’s get the day started.
Wash Off Your Tramp Stamp
Okay ladies. This is where you have to shower or possibly/most likely fake it because it’s time to get yourself together. If you have time to wash out all your regrets beforehand, go for it! You can lather up with a moisturising body wash and have a little TLC. But realistically, you probably woke up late, so if you don’t have time to shower, remember these two things. First, wash your hands. Do you really want to go to a meeting with “Two4One” or “Fusion Nights” stamped on your hand? Wash that off immediately. Also, try to wash your face if you can. Start with a makeup wipe to get off all the makeup you probably slept in, and then dab on a moisturiser because your skin is most likely dehydrated.
Cover Up Last Night’s Regrets
Makeup can really be your friend in this situation. You can choose to own your hangover and dress like you clearly went out the night before, or you can overcome that massive son of a bitch and look like you had 8 hours of sleep and did some light yoga that morning. The best partiers have mastered how to still look fly while running on a hangover. Do yourself a favour, and drink tons of water to overcome your bloated face. Seriously, how many double chins can someone have? If your eyes are puffy, you can also put tea bags on your face to alleviate any puffiness. While you got those tea bags on your face, maybe check your phone and see the damage to your bank account and check out the pictures you don’t remember taking in the women’s toilets.
Make A Personalised Hangover Kit
Before you leave your house, do yourself a favour and pack the essentials. Some people have survival kits, and you’ll need a hangover one for work. I would pack a ginger ale or Sprite can in your bag, just in case you start feeling a little nauseous. Also, if you have time, make somewhat of a heavy breakfast. Breakfast sandwiches can be really easy and quick, and if you eat that leftover pizza by your bedside, chances are, you’ll feel even greasier and worse after work. There’s something about soup that can heal your soul after selling yours the night before, so opt for a noodle based soup like pho or ramen. If you can pack that for lunch, that’ll definitely soothe your soul mentally and physically.
Focus On Your Work Bitch
Remember that faint flashback of you texting your ex boyfriend about how happy you finally are or that moment you threw up in a nightclub bin? Yeah block that shit out of your mind. It’ll distract you from work. It’s okay to deal with the repercussions after. We all have those ‘That’s So Raven’ moments when we get visions from the night before, but try not to think about all the mistakes you made. If there’s a boy you met last night, don’t worry, he’ll still be alive when you come home. Keep your Instagram and Snapchat check-ins at a minimum. Try to focus on work as much as you can, unless it’s brunch time. Then by all means, spill the details and gossip with your co-workers. When you finally get home, make sure you take some time to relax. It feels like a marathon going from a night out straight to work, so feel free to treat yourself when the work day is over.
Written by: Kavita Singh
Illustration: Bleeker Brand by Beth Richardson
How To: Appear Cultured When You’re Really Not
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There’s no rule that says you always have to be the most cultivated person in the room. True friends will accept the fact that your film knowledge extends to the top five teenage makeover movies of the early 00s or that your favourite La La Land is by Demi Lovato. Other times, you’re at dinner with your pal’s new arty boyfriend or trying to convince an interviewer that there’s more to you than a mastery of Excel – in this case, a little blagging may be required. Luckily for you, Lady Bible is here to help…
Head Straight To The Gift Shop
Let’s face it, actually attending exhibitions can be kind of a drag. Your feet start to hurt, selfies with self-portraits are frowned upon and the only painting you came to see is more crowded than the Northern line on a Tuesday. But if you can make it at least as far as the gift shop, be sure to pick up a few souvenirs of your amazing ‘experience’ with the artist of the moment – whether Mondrian or Mantegna, there’s bound to be an exciting exhibition poster ready and waiting to commemorate your day. Better still, pick up a tote bag for some on-the-go #art appreciation.
Be warned: this could end up like that Joy Division t-shirt you owned in Year 9 (make sure you can name at least one of the paintings this time).
Learn the First Line of a Few Famous Poems
This one is inspired by Woody Allen’s startlingly mediocre To Rome with Love, in which the ‘well read’ and incredibly vacuous Monica reels off the first line of several poems in order to convince a gullible boy of her intelligence: “You buy into her bullshit because she seems to know all the right things to say. She knows names, she knows buzzwords, she knows certain cultural phrases that imply that she knows more than she does.”
Let this be an inspiration to us all – forget the dust-ridden anthologies staring down from your parents’ shelf and head to Sparknotes instead. A few daffodils and roads not taken and you’re ready to impress at any dinner party you choose. It’s what Keats would have wanted, n’est-ce pas?
Curate Your Instagram Persona
Even if the majority of your weekends are spent practising child’s pose amongst a pile of empty Twiglet packets, your Insta self doesn’t have to do the same. Follow some ~artsy~ accounts such as @dreamersofdecadence or @accidentallywesanderson and do some select regrams of the edgiest looking shots. While you’re at it, snap a picture of yourself outside the National Gallery on your way to the nearby Pret, story a random article you found on Twitter that makes you seem informed and be sure the world knows when you venture into Waterstones to use the loo and happen to pass by this year’s Booker Prize winner.
Learn To Cook Just One Ottolenghi Dish (Must Include Pomegranate Seeds)
There’s nothing more guaranteed to make dinner parties look ultra chic than a good old-fashioned Ottolenghi concoction. The more colours the better, make sure to pick the one with the most unnecessary decoration (edible flowers, crushed pistachios, miniature Mona Lisas and the like) to guarantee that it ends up on all your guests’ Instas for the next month to come. No need to learn more than the one dish – nobody has to see the pesto pasta you eat for every other meal of the week and when people start to get suspicious just swap them for a new group of willing participants. Real friends will get it.
Look Back At Your English GCSE Revision Notes
It is a truth universally acknowledged that people love talking about what they know. And what do they know better than the books whose content they were forced to digest and vomit back up every week over the course of two long years? That’s right, it’s time to whip out The Great Gatsby (or maybe just re-watch the film with the fun Beyoncé cover) and brush up on your entry level literature analysis. Pathetic fallacy? Yes please. Cyclicality? Sign me up. The symbolism of GREEN and RED? It doesn’t get better than this! Your friends will be extra pleased to join in on a subject they feel comfortable with, but try to learn one extra fact so that in the end you turn out the cleverest – natch.
Written by: Mini Smith
Illustration: Bleeker Brand by Beth Richardson
How To: Do The Walk Of Shame
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What Is The Walk Of Shame?
The walk of shame, or as we at Lady Bible like to call it: the stride of pride, is the beeline to your own bed after a night spent in another’s. The hot foot from a hotty. The exit that prevents a one-night stand from becoming a one-life one. And what you must do when you can’t afford an Uber.
The walk of shame is what comes after you’ve awoken smelling like a pub bin, with a mouth that tastes like a fluffy dog on bonfire night and a head that pounds like a baseline. And there is no escaping it once you’ve established, through bleary eyes, that these bedsheets aren’t yours, this room isn’t yours and that heavy-breathing hunk sure as hell ain’t.
But whether it was a 2 am ‘u up?’ text or butt-dial to an ex that got you in this situation, it is nothing to be feared. Your route should be a runway, and not a plank that leads to an ocean of regret – you are a Lady, after all. So with that in mind here are some useful tips to enable you to keep your head held high, and stride with pride!
You Don’t Have To Hurry Out The Door
Unless you want to, of course. Take your time, have a coffee, and a shower (if you can). They can’t judge you – it takes two to tango. Besides, you never know, last night’s lover might be a great conversationalist and you could want to stay in touch. And if you don’t, still try not to rush because you might forget your underwear and there is nothing more anxiety-inducing than that!
Embrace The Bedhead
Kate Middleton’s billowy blow-outs are so out, messy hair is in. Hell, why not backcomb it even more? Bed hair makes a statement. That statement being “I had sex last night”, and what is so wrong with that?
Smudged Make-up Is A LEWK
The smoky eye is hard to perfect, but last night’s slept in make-up is as close you can get to the coveted haven’t-really-tried rocker vibe. Mascara smudges hide dark circles too, so let them happen. Imperfection IS perfection, and you woke up like this – flawless.
Don’t Hide It, Flaunt It
So what if it’s 8 am and you’re wearing your fuck-me pumps and your tad-too-short skirt? So what if you’re wearing a beer stained shirt? Everyone knows, and guess what? Nobody actually cares. As my mum once told my embarrassed younger self : “People are far too concerned with themselves to care what you’re doing.” You have nothing to hide and you’ll only draw more attention if you act like you do, so strut like you mean it! But if you do get any judgmental glances, just stare right back and flash them a large, knowing smile.
Play Some Tunes As You Go
Nothing puts a spring in your step like a sassy song. Some in-theme picks include One Night Stand by Janis Joplin, Run the World (girls) by Beyoncé and These Boots Are Made for Walkin’ by Nancy Sinatra. Find the full playlist on Spotify @LadyBibleTunes.
Own The Experience
Even if it was terrible. As Nora Ephron, the great journalist and writer, once said “the tragedies of your life one day have the potential to be comic stories the next.” At the very least your night will become something to bitch about over a glass of wine, and at best it will lead to a lifetime of happiness and co-ownership of a labrador. Regret is pointless, you wanted to do it at the time and (hopefully) it was fun. You should just consider it a part of the journey, a small scene in the movie of your life. And in that story you are not the one-night stand, you are the leading Lady!
Written by: Lydia Veljanovski
Illustration: Bleeker Brand by Beth Richardson
How To: Hacks For Laundry Day
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We all know the feeling – it’s Monday morning, you’re running late after hitting snooze one too many times, and the hangover from one too many glasses (or bottles) of wine has already hit. You smear last night’s makeup into something that looks somewhat presentable, choke from spraying way too much dry shampoo into your greasy bird’s nest of a bedhead, and grab the first clothes you can find from your beautifully organised floor-drobe.
Alas, they’re stained, crumpled, and don’t pass the smell test even if you’re being generous. It is at this exact moment that you instantly regret not doing the laundry you promised yourself you’d do this weekend. (But spending your weekend doing laundry isn’t much fun, and realistically it was NEVER gonna happen.)
So, my fellow dirty bitches, what should you do?
Wrinkles Are for Pugs, Not Your Playsuit
You’ve managed to find your fav playsuit stuffed under your bed, but it now looks like a floral accordion rather than a cute outfit. Save some precious time on ironing (boring), and hang up your outfit on the shower door while you jump in for a quick scrub and wash away your regrets from the night before. The steam will make that baby look good as new, and will leave you with more time for a nice morning existential crisis in the tub. (Anyone else re-enact Rihanna’s ‘Stay’ video when hungover in the bath?)
“Alcohol – The Cause Of, And Solution To, All Of Life’s Problems”
Never have truer words been spoken by Homer J. Simpson. If you’ve got some spare vodka leftover from the weekend and you feel like you can sacrifice it, pour a little into a spray bottle and add some water and lemon (no mixer tho pls). Spritz it over your dirty shirts and hang them up near a window to air out. The sight of the bottle alone may bring back flashbacks of bad decisions, but the alcohol will neutralise any odour and leave you hot to trot.
Spray, Delay, And Walk Away
Jonathan Van Ness, Queer Eye’s most loved Queen, always has some words of wisdom when it comes to fashion tips. So omg, like, no shade at all, but you’re like struggs to func right now (translation: struggling to function), so you need to spray, delay and walk away honey. Spray some perfume into the air in front of you while you’re wearing your not-so-fresh clothes, wait a sec until the mist spreads a bit, and then sashay away like Miss Vanjieeeee. She’s gorg honey, she’s livinggggg. JVN would be proud.
Let’s Mention The Unmentionables
If you’re really feeling ballsy and desperate you can always turn your underwear inside out (sorry mom). Bras are basically a free pass; I mean do you even have to wash them??? (yes). Smelly socks can be pretty disgusting, but sprinkle some talcum powder on the soles and inside your shoes to freshen them up.
‘Sure’ It’ll Smell Fine!
Your smelly jumper might have you feeling like you’re in the pitts, but a good douse of deodorant should do the trick. Just make sure it doesn’t leave any white marks! Bad for the environment, good for the people who have to stand next to you on the tube.
I’m Spinning Around, Get Out Of My Way
If you have a few minutes to spare, have a boogie to a Kylie Minogue classic while you throw your outfit into the tumble dryer for a quick freshen up, and add some scented dryer sheets if you have them for extra floral freshness.
(Note: for extra funky music find the full playlist on Spotify @LadyBibleTunes).
Bake That Face, And Those Stains
While you’re waiting for your setting powder to bake, grab some baking soda and sprinkle it on to those nasty pitt-stains. Rub it in and leave it for a few minutes, and then brush it off. The soda will soak up the odour and your stinky shirt will live to see another day.
Written by: Megan Sarah Kelly
Illustration: Bleeker Brand by Beth Richardson
How To: Dump Them After The First Date
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So you killed your first date? Duh. You were your naturally charming, sexy self, and now your date has the heart eye emojis for you? Here’s the thing. You don’t want to see this person again. That’s right. Ladies, we go through it too. Whether it’s halfway through the date or when your trying to tame your bed head in the morning, sometimes you just realise this is not going to be a long term thing. So what do you do so the guy thinks it was his decision to end things?
Talk About Your Ex
You’re not going to just mention your ex. Make your date your therapist as you delve into all ins and outs of what your ex did wrong. People can tell a lot about your character from past relationships, especially if you’re putting all the blame and responsibility on your ex. Also, if you did something crazy during the aftermath of your breakup, don’t be afraid to throw that in the conversation as well. It’ll be enough of a red flag for your date to tattoo “temporary” on your forehead.
Complain About Everything
Negativity is truly toxic. If you complain about everything on your date, he’ll get a sense of negative energy from you, and he’ll realise what a downer you are. Make sure you criticise everything in your life, from your overbearing mum who still makes your favourite dish every time you visit to how annoying it is that your dog just had puppies.
Yes, this is key. Anyone can complain about the negative aspects of the world, but it takes skill to complain about positive things in the world like your mother and adorable puppies. If you really feel like getting into character, call your waiter or bartender over with loads of complaints. Not only will you come off as overly critical, but you’ll be seen as very high maintenance.
Be REALLY Needy In The Morning
Nothing annoys guys more than when you’re hanging around in the morning, while he mentally figures out how he’s going to kick you out of his bed. So hang on to him. In fact, just sprawl your whole body out on top of him. However, this will backfire if you have morning sex! Tell him you just want to cuddle and hold each other. Call him a ridiculous pet name like cupcake too while you cuddle. And when he starts mentioning all the things he has to get done for the day, be oblivious as you cling onto him.
Have Absurd Excuses For Texting Back Late
Nothing is more of a pet peeve than flakey texters. Go hours without getting back to him, and when you do, hit him with a storm of messages that explain why you were gone. Say your phone broke. Better yet, tell him you accidentally tossed it in a fire and had to get a new phone. The point is that you’re not playing hard to get, but at the same time, you’re smothering him with messages, which will likely confuse and overwhelm the poor soul. Eventually, he’ll get fed up and Tinder will be way more of a viable option.
Written by: Kavita Singh
Illustration: Bleeker Brand by Beth Richardson
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